There is an old saying that I have heard for years. It goes like this: "what goes around comes around". I am not big on quotes but this one has proven itself over the years. As a matter of fact this quote might be referencing a biblical reference found in Ecclesiastes 11:1. The idea is that the investments you make good or bad eventually come back to you.
Encouragement is an investment in people. If you want to receive encouragement you must learn the benefit of encouraging others. Encouragement goes beyond a circle of friends. Encouraging words can be spoken to someone you don't even know. You may not see the return right away but eventually those whom you have touched with words of encouragement will find some success.
There are steps to becoming an encourager. They are:
1. Stop complaining
2. Start listening to people
3. Do something for someone other than yourself
4. Speak words to people that will build them up and not tear them down
5. Look for someone everyday to encourage
6. Move beyond YOUR fear
7. Drop sarcasm...it's stupid
8. Point out good things
9. Pay attention to how YOU treat people
10. Start encouraging someone today
When you encourage it allows a person to be empowered. It also empowers you to be free of being self-centered. I was always told if you are are down in the dumps find someone else to encourage. It will pull you out of despair. Now, don't just sit there...move beyond yourself and encourage someone...even if you don't want to. You just might feel a whole lot better about you.
Be Encouraged,
Rick
